Officers dating other officers
There are a lot of groups and clubs and stuff for police wives. It takes a strong, secure man not only to be with a female cop but to run around and brag about it.
With the majority of officers being male, much of the dialogue and resources available to police couples revolves around male/female relationships.
That can be very frustrated especially if you don't understand why you have hurt feelings.""We want you to love your brothers and sisters and love your job, but don't love the agency.
It's not the agency's job to love you back and make you happy. If they understand what their job is and what their mission is, they will be better able to understand their personal relationships including those with a spouse, parents, kids and friends.""A partner of a woman officer needs to understand the female brain, communication differences, and understand that in spite of the fact it is 2009, in many ways, woman police officers are still fighting to have a solid foothold in the profession.""I would really encourage the partner to not allow her to view herself as a victim.
In addition to cases of relationships between soldiers of different ranks, fraternization between trainees and soldiers or between recruiters and recruits is also prohibited.
When dating takes place between soldiers of the same rank or between a solider and a civilian employee or government contractor, military regulations only prohibit those relationships which directly affect morale, discipline, respect for authority or otherwise interfere with a mission.
You're an accountant and you're telling her about your day and she's talking about the guy she tasered and the active shooting training she went to or she's talking about her new AR 15 and the training she's going to,""We are naturally suspicious. We are taught from the very beginning that the world is a violent place and people want to hurt us.Although immensely helpful to the majority, the issues female officers face goes, many times, unacknowledged.Stereotypes and challenges abound in their quest for a significant other.All branches of the United States military maintain regulations that govern dating, and any fraternization, among both officers and enlisted soldiers.
Since 1984, improper fraternization has been recognized as a punishable offense. military also has regulations regarding marriage among officers or enlisted soldiers. Army, Navy, Air Force and Marines all have regulations in place prohibiting this activity as a kind of fraternization.Law enforcement is an occupation but it flows over into personal lives.